ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Darieth Chisolm - Journalist, activist
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach.

Why you should listen

Darieth Chisolm works with corporate professionals, coaches, authors, speakers and visionaries to develop visibility and multimedia strategies that build brand, influence and income. She leverages her life coaching skills to help victims and survivors of assault and abuse release the shame, live with confidence and find their everyday courage. 

Chisolm is also a revenge porn victim turned activist, filmmaker and founder of 50 Shades of Silence, a global movement giving voice and dignity to victims of cyber harassment and abuse. The project aims to advocate for stricter laws and tougher enforcement for cyber sexual crimes; encourage the accountability and responsiveness among online companies; promote social responsibility for texting, posting and sharing online; and restore dignity and respect to victims and survivors. It includes an upcoming feature-length documentary, a website with resources and services, and motivational and empowerment training materials to help victims.

Chisolm is currently the host of CBS's Eye on Health and PBS's Emmy-winning iQ: smartparent. Her YouTube channel and online video podcast series, Hustle & Heart TV, was a top 10 finalist for the 2015 Podcast Awards for Best Video Podcast and was ranked number one on iTunes for more than two months with subscribers and viewers in multiple countries.

Chisolm is also the author of Hustle! Why Now is the Time to Unleash your Passions, a collection of powerful and motivating stories to help readers unlock and unleash their passions and learn how to hustle in business while loving life in the process. She is also a contributing writer for Inspiring Lives and Woman of More magazines.

Chisolm received the 2018 Woman of Influence Award from the Pittsburgh Business Times and has been named Top 10 Trailblazers in Communications by Walker’s Legacy and nominated as Entrepreneur of the Year with Style Week in Pittsburgh. She has received two proclamations from the City of Pittsburgh, two proclamations from Allegheny County and a special recognition from the Senate of Pennsylvania for making an outstanding difference and profound impact in Pittsburgh.

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Darieth Chisolm: How revenge porn turns lives upside down

达连·启森: 色情报复是如何颠覆受害者生活的

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如果你是色情报复或网络欺凌的受害者,你能做什么?令人震惊的是,记者和活动家达连·启森说到,她发现自己正生活在一种噩梦般的生活中:在自己不知情或未经许可的情况下就能在网上看到拍摄的露骨照片。她描述了她是如何帮助受害者的,并概述了当前旨在惩罚肇事者的立法现状。
- Journalist, activist
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach. Full bio

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在我开始跟一群商业
老板宣讲关于
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I had about five minutes分钟
before I was set to deliver交付 a talk
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to a bunch of business商业 owners拥有者
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视角和在镜头的情况前,
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about visibility能见度 and being存在 on camera相机.
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我有大约5分钟的时间。
毕竟,我是所谓的专家,
00:20
After all, I was
the so-called所谓 expert专家 there,
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the former前任的 20-year-年 television电视 news新闻 anchor
and life and business商业 coach教练.
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曾是20年电视新闻的主播员
以及生活和商业指导。
00:28
I happened发生 to take a look down
at my cell细胞 phone电话 just to catch抓住 the time,
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为了不错过时间,我偶尔
会低下头看一下手机,
00:32
and I noticed注意到 that I had a missed错过 call
from my ex-husband前夫.
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接着我发现了我前夫的未接电话。
00:36
I can still hear his voice语音.
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我现在仍然能听到他的声音。
00:39
"Darieth达里思, what is going on?
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“达连,最近怎么样?
00:43
I just got a call from some strange奇怪 man
who told me to go to this website网站,
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我刚接到一个陌生人的电话,
他让我去看这个网站
00:47
and now I'm looking at
all of these photos相片 of you naked.
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现在我在看所有这些
你的裸体照片。
00:52
Your private私人的 parts部分
are all over this website网站.
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整个网页上都是你的隐私部位。
00:55
Who's谁是 seen看到 this?"
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谁还看过?”
00:58
I couldn't不能 think. I couldn't不能 breathe呼吸.
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我不能思考。我不能呼吸。
01:02
I was so humiliated羞辱
and so embarrassed尴尬 and so ashamed羞愧.
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我觉得很丢脸
非常尴尬,非常羞愧。
01:06
I felt like my world世界 was coming未来 to an end结束.
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我感受到了末日的来临。
01:09
And yet然而, this began开始 for me
months个月 of pain疼痛 and depression萧条
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然而,这一切仅仅是
几个月痛苦和沮丧的开始
01:13
and anger愤怒 and confusion混乱 and silence安静.
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同时还有愤怒,困惑和沉寂。
01:16
My manipulative操控, jealous,
stalker死缠烂打 ex-boyfriend前男友
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我那专制,嫉妒,
跟踪狂前男友
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did exactly究竟 what he said he would do:
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照他之前威胁我的做了:
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he put up a website网站 with my name名称 on it,
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他建了一个网站,
上面有我的名字,
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and he posted发布 this.
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他发布了这个。
01:29
And this.
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还有这个。
01:31
And several一些 explicit明确的 photos相片
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还有先前我们
一起住在牙买加,
01:33
that he had taken采取 of me
while I was asleep睡着,
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他趁我熟睡时
01:35
living活的 with him in Jamaica牙买加.
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偷拍的露骨照片。
01:37
For months个月 prior to that,
he had been sending发出 me
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在那件事发生的几个月前,
他已经给我发送
01:40
threatening危险的 text文本 messages消息 like this.
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这样的威胁短信了。
01:42
He was trying to make me out to be
some sleazy肮脏, low-life低寿命 slut懒妇.
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他试图把我塑造成这样——
一个卑鄙下流的荡妇。
01:47
He had even threatened受威胁 to kill me.
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他甚至威胁要杀了我。
01:49
He told me that he would shoot射击 me
in my head and stab me in my heart,
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他警告会枪击我的头部,
并刺进我的心,
01:54
simply只是 because I wanted to end结束
the controlling控制 relationship关系.
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只是因为我想结束
被他控制的关系。
01:58
I couldn't不能 believe
this was happening事件 to me.
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我不敢相信这会发生在我身上。
02:01
I didn't even know what to call it.
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我甚至不知道怎么称呼这件事。
02:03
You might威力 know it as
cyberharassmentcyberharassment or cyberbullying网络欺凌.
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你可能知道网络欺辱,
或者网络欺凌。
02:07
The media媒体 calls电话 it "revenge复仇 pornA片."
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媒体称之为“色情报复”。
02:10
I now call it "digital数字 domestic国内 violence暴力."
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我现在称之为“网络家庭暴力”。
02:14
It typically一般 stems from
a relationship关系 gone走了 bad,
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它通常源于一段变坏了的感情,
02:17
where a controlling控制, jilted抛弃 ex-lover前情人
can't handle处理 rejection拒绝,
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被抛弃的前情人
无法接受被拒绝,
02:21
so when they can't physically物理
put their hands on you,
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所以当他们不能把手
放在你身上时,
02:24
they use different不同 weapons武器:
cell细胞 phones手机 and laptops笔记本电脑.
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他们选择使用不同的武器:
手机和笔记本电脑。
02:28
The ammunition弹药?
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弹药武器呢?
02:29
Photos相片, videos视频, explicit明确的 information信息,
content内容 -- all posted发布 online线上,
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照片,视频,露骨信息,
露骨内容——未经允许,
02:35
without your consent同意.
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全部发布在网上。
02:37
I mean, let's face面对 it --
we all live生活 our lives生活 online线上.
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我是说,让我们面对现实吧
我们都在网上生活。
02:40
And the internet互联网 is a really small world世界.
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互联网是一个非常小的世界。
02:43
We show显示 off our baby宝宝 photos相片,
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我们炫耀我们的婴儿照片,
02:45
we start开始 and grow增长 our businesses企业,
we make new relationships关系,
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我们创立并发展我们的
业务,建立新的关系,
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we let the world世界 in,
one FacebookFacebook的 like at a time.
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我们让世界进入,
一次一个脸书。
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And you know what I found发现?
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你知道我发现了什么吗?
02:54
An even smaller world世界.
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一个更小的世界。
02:56
One in 25 women妇女 say
they have been impacted影响 by revenge复仇 pornA片.
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4%的女性表示他们受到了
色情报复的影响。
03:01
For women妇女 under the age年龄 of 30,
that number looks容貌 like one in 10.
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对于30岁以下的妇女,
这个数字似乎是10%。
03:06
And that leaves树叶 a few少数 of you
in this audience听众 as potential潜在 victims受害者.
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剩下一些人作为潜在的受害者。
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You want to know
what's even more alarming惊人?
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但你知道更令人担忧的是什么?
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Lack缺乏 of legislation立法 and laws法律
to adequately充分 protect保护 victims受害者
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我们缺乏条款和法律充分保护受害者
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and punish惩治 perpetrators肇事者.
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和惩罚罪犯。
03:18
There's only one federal联邦 bill法案 pending有待;
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只有一条悬而未决的联邦法案;
03:20
it's called the ENOUGH足够 Act法案,
by Senator参议员 Kamala卡马拉 Harris哈里斯.
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它被称为 “够了(ENOUGH)法案”,
由参议员卡玛拉·哈里斯提出。
03:24
It would criminalize刑事犯罪 revenge复仇 pornA片.
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它将色情报复定为犯罪。
03:27
But that could take years年份 to pass通过.
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但它可能需要数年时间才会通过。
03:29
So what are we left with in the meantime与此同时?
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除此之外还剩下什么呢?
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Flimsy脆弱 civil国内 misdemeanors轻罪.
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微不足道的民事处罚。
03:33
Currently目前, only 40 states状态 and DCDC
have some laws法律 in place地点 for revenge复仇 pornA片.
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目前,只有40个州和华盛顿特区
制定了一些针对色情报复的法律。
03:40
And those penalties处罚 vary变化 --
we're talking $500 fines罚款.
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这些惩罚还不是固定的——
通常只是500美元的罚款。
03:44
Five hundred dollars美元?
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500美元?!!
03:45
Are you kidding开玩笑 me?
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你在跟我开玩笑吧?
03:46
Women妇女 are losing失去 their jobs工作.
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女性正在失去工作。
03:47
They're suffering痛苦
from damaged破损 relationships关系
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她们忍受着残缺的关系和
03:50
and damaged破损 reputations名誉.
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受损的名誉所带来的痛苦。
03:51
They're falling落下 into illness疾病
and depression萧条.
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她们饱受疾病和抑郁的折磨。
03:54
And the suicide自杀 rates利率 are climbing攀登.
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自杀率也不断攀升。
03:57
You're looking at a woman女人
who spent花费 11 months个月 in court法庭,
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试想一位在法庭上
待了11个月,
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thirteen十三 trips旅行 to the courthouse法院
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去了13次法院,
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and thousands数千 of dollars美元 in legal法律 fees费用,
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以及将几千美元花在
法律费用的女性。
04:06
just to get two things:
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只为实现两件事:
04:08
a protection保护 from cyberstalking网络跟踪
and cyberabuse网络滥用,
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为防止网络跟踪和网络暴力,
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otherwise除此以外 known已知 as a PFA粉煤灰,
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简称为PFA,
04:13
and language语言 from a judge法官
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还有法官的宣判
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that would force a third-party第三方
internet互联网 company公司
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强制第三方网站公司
04:17
to remove去掉 the content内容.
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删除有关内容。
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It's expensive昂贵, complicated复杂 and confusing扑朔迷离.
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这种经历是昂贵,复杂和令人困惑的。
04:23
And worse更差, legal法律 loopholes漏洞
and jurisdictional管辖权的 issues问题 drag拖动 this out
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更糟糕的是,法律漏洞
以及司法问题
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for months个月,
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导致了这个问题出现了几个月
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while my private私人的 parts部分
were on display显示 for months个月.
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我的私处就被展出了几个月。
04:34
How would you feel if your naked body身体
was exposed裸露 for the world世界 to see,
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当站在世界的舞台,如果你赤身裸体,
你会有什么感觉?
04:38
and you waited等待 helplessly无奈
for the content内容 to be removed去除?
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你会不会无助地等待,
想要要删除内容?
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Eventually终于, I stumbled迷迷糊糊 upon
a private私人的 company公司
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后来,我偶然间发现了一家私人公司
04:45
to issue问题 a DMCADMCA notice注意
to shut关闭 the website网站 down.
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可以根据DMCA条约关闭那个网站。
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DMCADMCA -- Digital数字 Millennium千年 Copyright版权 Act法案.
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DMCA——数字千年版权法。
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It's a law that regulates调整对象
digital数字 material材料 and content内容.
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这是一项管控网络
材料与内容的法律。
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Broadly, the aim目标 of the DMCADMCA is to protect保护
both copyright版权 owners拥有者 and consumers消费者.
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一般来说,DMCA目的是保护
版权所有者和消费者。
05:01
So get this:
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所以留意我说的:
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people who take and share分享 nude裸体 photos相片
own拥有 the rights权利 to those selfies自拍,
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拍摄和分享裸照的人
拥有这些相片的权利,
05:07
so they should be able能够 to issue问题 a DMCADMCA
to have the content内容 removed去除.
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他们理论上可以执行
DMCA条款,删除内容。
05:12
But not so fast快速 --
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但没这么简单——
05:14
because the other fight斗争 we're dealing交易 with
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因为我们还要处理另一场
05:16
is noncompliant不符合 and nonresponsive无响应
third-party第三方 internet互联网 companies公司.
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与不合规、拒绝回应的
第三方互联网公司的斗争。
05:21
And oh -- by the way,
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哦,顺便说一下,
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even in consenting同意 relationships关系,
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即使在两厢情愿的关系中,
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just because you get
a nude裸体 photo照片 or a naked picPIC,
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因为你得到一张裸照,
05:28
does not give you the right to share分享 it,
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并不代表你有权利分享它,
05:31
even [without] the intent意图 to do harm危害.
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即使你没想伤害谁。
05:34
Back to my case案件,
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回到我的例子上,
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which哪一个 happens发生 to be further进一步 complicated复杂
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我这个情况更复杂,
05:37
because he was stalking盯梢 and harassing骚扰 me
from another另一个 country国家,
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因为他在另一个国家
跟踪我,骚扰我,
05:40
making制造 it nearly几乎 impossible不可能
to get help here.
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使得我几乎不可能在当地寻求帮助。
05:45
But wait a minute分钟 --
isn't the internet互联网 international国际?
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但是等一下,这不是
国际互联网的事吗?
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Shouldn't不能 we have
some sort分类 of policy政策 in place地点
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难道我们不应该制定某种
通用保护的政策吗?
05:50
that broadly宽广地 protects保护 us,
regardless而不管 to borders国界 or restrictions限制?
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无论边界与限制。
05:55
I just couldncouldn’t give up;
I had to keep fighting战斗.
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我无法放弃;
我将继续战斗。
05:59
So I willingly甘心, on three occasions场合,
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所以我默许了,有三次,
06:02
allowed允许 for the invasion侵入
of both my cell细胞 phone电话 and my laptop笔记本电脑
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当我的手机和笔记本电脑
06:07
by the Department of Homeland家园 Security安全
and the Jamaican牙买加 Embassy大使馆
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被国土安全局,还有牙买加大使馆
06:11
for thorough彻底 forensic法庭的 investigation调查,
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进行彻底的法庭调查时,
06:13
because I had maintained保持
all of the evidence证据.
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因为我保存了所有的证据。
06:17
I painstakingly精心 shared共享 my private私人的 parts部分
with the all-male所有男性 investigative研究 team球队.
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我艰难地与全为男性的调查团队
“共享”我的隐私部位。
06:23
And it was an embarrassing尴尬, humiliating羞辱
additional额外 hoop to jump through通过.
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这是一种尴尬,
羞辱,不必要的经历。
06:29
But then something happened发生.
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但后来发生了一些事情。
06:31
Jamaican牙买加 authorities当局
actually其实 arrested被捕 him.
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牙买加当局逮捕了他。
06:35
He's now facing面对 charges收费
under their malicious恶毒 communications通讯 act法案,
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他现在面临着《恶意通信法案》的指控,
06:40
and if found发现 guilty有罪, could face面对
thousands数千 of dollars美元 in fines罚款
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如果罪名成立,他可能
会面临数千美元的罚款
06:44
and up to 10 years年份 in prison监狱.
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以及十年的牢狱之灾。
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And I've also learned学到了 that my case案件
is making制造 history历史 --
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我也了解到,
我的案例创造了历史——
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it is the first international国际 case案件
under this new crime犯罪.
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这是第一个关于这类
新罪行的国际案例。
06:54
Wow, finally最后 some justice正义.
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哇,正义的审判终于到来。
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But this got me to thinking思维.
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但这引发了我的深思。
07:00
Nobody没有人 deserves值得 this.
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没有人应该受到这种行为。
07:02
Nobody没有人 deserves值得 this level水平 of humiliation屈辱
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没有人应该忍受
这样一级的羞辱
07:06
and having to jump through通过
all of these hoops.
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以及不得不经历
所有这些折腾。
07:10
Our cyber网络 civil国内 rights权利 are at stake赌注.
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我们的网络公民权利岌岌可危。
07:14
Here in the United联合的 States状态,
we need to have clear明确, tough强硬 enforcement强制;
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在美国,我们需要明确、强硬的执法;
07:19
we need to demand需求 the accountability问责
and responsiveness响应 from online线上 companies公司;
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我们需要问责制
以及来自网络公司的回应;
07:24
we need to promote促进 social社会 responsibilities责任
for posting发帖, sharing分享 and texting发短信;
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我们需要促进社会责任
用于发帖、分享和发短信;
07:28
and we need to restore恢复 dignity尊严 to victims受害者.
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我们需要恢复受害者的尊严。
07:33
And what about victims受害者
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那么受害者呢?
07:36
who neither也不 have the time,
money or resources资源 to wage工资 war战争,
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谁也没有发动战争的
时间,金钱或资源,
07:39
who are left disempowered剥夺权力,
mislabeled贴错标签 and broken破碎?
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他们被剥夺了权利,
错误的认知,以及被伤害。
07:44
Two things:
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还有两件事:
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release发布 the shame耻辱 and end结束 the silence安静.
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摆脱羞耻,打破沉默。
07:50
Shame耻辱 is at the core核心 of all of this.
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羞耻是这一切的核心。
07:53
And for every一切 silent无声 prisoner囚犯 of shame耻辱,
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对于每一个沉默的耻辱囚犯,
07:56
it's the fear恐惧 of judgment判断
that's holding保持 you hostage人质.
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是恐惧束缚你,
将你囚如人质
08:00
And the price价钱 to pay工资
is the stripping剥离 away of your self-worth自我价值.
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以及付出的代价是
自我价值的剥离。
08:05
The day I ended结束 my silence安静,
I freed释放 myself from shame耻辱.
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当我打破沉默的那一天,
我从羞愧中解脱出来。
08:09
And I freed释放 myself
from the fear恐惧 of judgment判断
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我把自己从被批判的恐惧牢笼中挣脱出来
08:12
from the one person who I thought
would judge法官 me the most --
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从我最担心会评价误解我的人那里——
08:16
my son儿子,
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我的儿子,
08:17
who actually其实 told me,
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他告诉我,
08:19
"Mom妈妈, you are the strongest最强
person that I know.
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“妈,你是我认识的最勇敢的人。
08:24
You can get through通过 this.
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你可以的。
08:26
And besides除了, mom妈妈 -- he chose选择
the wrong错误 woman女人 to mess食堂 with."
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除此之外,妈,他惹错人了。“
08:31
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
(鼓掌)
08:32
(Applause掌声)
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08:37
It was on that day that I decided决定
to use my platform平台
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在那天,我决定使用我的平台
08:41
and my story故事 and my voice语音.
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我的故事和我的嗓音。
08:44
And to get started开始, I asked myself
this one simple简单 question:
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为了开始,我问自己
一个简单的问题:
08:48
Who do I need to become成为 now?
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我现在需要成为什么样的人?
08:50
That question, in the face面对 of everything
that I was challenged挑战 with,
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面对所有的挑战,
08:54
transformed改造 my life and had me thinking思维
about all kinds of possibilities可能性.
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它们改变了我的人生,使我全面思考。
08:59
I now own拥有 my story故事, I speak说话 my truth真相,
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我现在拥有我的故事,
我说出我的真相,
09:02
and I'm narrating话外音
a new chapter章节 in my life.
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我正在叙述我人生的新篇章。
09:05
It's called "50 Shades色调 of Silence安静."
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它叫做 “沉默的50道阴影”
09:08
It's a global全球 social社会 justice正义 project项目,
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这是一个全球性的
社会正义项目,
09:11
and we're working加工 to film电影
an upcoming即将到来 documentary记录
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我们正在拍摄一个
快要上映的的纪录片
09:13
to give voice语音 and dignity尊严 to victims受害者.
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通过它来激励受害者,
重塑她们的尊严。
09:16
If you are a victim受害者 or you know
someone有人 who is, know this:
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如果你是受害者,或者你知道有人是
记住这一点:
09:21
in order订购 to be empowered授权,
you have to take care关心 of yourself你自己,
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为了变强,你必须照顾好自己,
09:24
and you have to love yourself你自己.
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你也必须做到自爱。
09:26
You have to turn your anger愤怒 into action行动,
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你必须把愤怒转化为行动,
09:29
your pain疼痛 into power功率
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转化为力量
09:30
and your setback挫折 into a setup建立
for what's next下一个 for your life.
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还有战胜挫折,直面人生。
09:36
This is a process处理, and it's a journey旅程
of self-discovery自我发现
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这是一个自我发现的过程,
也是一个旅程。
09:40
that might威力 include包括 forgiveness饶恕.
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其中充斥着宽恕。
09:42
But it definitely无疑 requires要求 bravery,
confidence置信度 and conviction定罪.
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但这确实需要勇气,
信心和信念。
09:48
I call it:
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我称它为:
09:49
finding发现 your everyday每天 courage勇气.
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找到你每天的勇气。
09:54
Thank you.
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谢谢。
(掌声,呐喊)
09:55
(Applause掌声)
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Translated by Homer Li
Reviewed by Jin Ge

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Darieth Chisolm - Journalist, activist
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach.

Why you should listen

Darieth Chisolm works with corporate professionals, coaches, authors, speakers and visionaries to develop visibility and multimedia strategies that build brand, influence and income. She leverages her life coaching skills to help victims and survivors of assault and abuse release the shame, live with confidence and find their everyday courage. 

Chisolm is also a revenge porn victim turned activist, filmmaker and founder of 50 Shades of Silence, a global movement giving voice and dignity to victims of cyber harassment and abuse. The project aims to advocate for stricter laws and tougher enforcement for cyber sexual crimes; encourage the accountability and responsiveness among online companies; promote social responsibility for texting, posting and sharing online; and restore dignity and respect to victims and survivors. It includes an upcoming feature-length documentary, a website with resources and services, and motivational and empowerment training materials to help victims.

Chisolm is currently the host of CBS's Eye on Health and PBS's Emmy-winning iQ: smartparent. Her YouTube channel and online video podcast series, Hustle & Heart TV, was a top 10 finalist for the 2015 Podcast Awards for Best Video Podcast and was ranked number one on iTunes for more than two months with subscribers and viewers in multiple countries.

Chisolm is also the author of Hustle! Why Now is the Time to Unleash your Passions, a collection of powerful and motivating stories to help readers unlock and unleash their passions and learn how to hustle in business while loving life in the process. She is also a contributing writer for Inspiring Lives and Woman of More magazines.

Chisolm received the 2018 Woman of Influence Award from the Pittsburgh Business Times and has been named Top 10 Trailblazers in Communications by Walker’s Legacy and nominated as Entrepreneur of the Year with Style Week in Pittsburgh. She has received two proclamations from the City of Pittsburgh, two proclamations from Allegheny County and a special recognition from the Senate of Pennsylvania for making an outstanding difference and profound impact in Pittsburgh.

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