ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Zak Ebrahim - Peace activist
Groomed for terror, Zak Ebrahim chose a different life. The author of The Terrorist's Son, he hopes his story will inspire others to reject a path of violence.

Why you should listen

When Zak Ebrahim was seven, his family went on the run. His father, El Sayyid Nosair, had hoped Zak would follow in his footsteps -- and become a jihadist. Instead, Zak was at the beginning of a long journey to comprehend his past.

Zak Ebrahim kept his family history a secret as they moved through a long succession of towns. In 2010, he realized his experience as a terrorist’s son not only gave him a unique perspective, but also a unique chance to show that if he could escape a violent heritage, anyone could. As he told Truthdig.com, “We must embrace tolerance and nonviolence. Who knows this better than the son of a terrorist?”

In 2014 Ebrahim published the TED Book The Terrorist's Son, a memoir written with Jeff Giles about the path he took to turn away from hate. In early 2015 the book won an American Library Association Alex award.

More profile about the speaker
Zak Ebrahim | Speaker | TED.com
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Zak Ebrahim: I am the son of a terrorist. Here's how I chose peace.

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If you’re raised on dogma and hate, can you choose a different path? Zak Ebrahim was just seven years old when his father helped plan the 1993 World Trade Center bombing. His story is shocking, powerful and, ultimately, inspiring.
- Peace activist
Groomed for terror, Zak Ebrahim chose a different life. The author of The Terrorist's Son, he hopes his story will inspire others to reject a path of violence. Full bio

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On November 5th, 1990,
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a man named El-Sayyid Nosair walked
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into a hotel in Manhattan
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and assassinated Rabbi Meir Kahane,
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the leader of the Jewish Defense League.
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Nosair was initially found not guilty of the murder,
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but while serving time on lesser charges,
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he and other men began planning attacks
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on a dozen New York City landmarks,
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including tunnels, synagogues
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and the United Nations headquarters.
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Thankfully, those plans were foiled
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by an FBI informant.
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Sadly, the 1993 bombing
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of the World Trade Center was not.
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Nosair would eventually be convicted
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for his involvement in the plot.
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El-Sayyid Nosair is my father.
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I was born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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in 1983 to him, an Egyptian engineer,
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and a loving American mother
and grade school teacher,
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who together tried their best
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to create a happy childhood for me.
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It wasn't until I was seven years old
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that our family dynamic started to change.
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My father exposed me to a side of Islam
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that few people, including the majority of Muslims,
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get to see.
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It's been my experience that when people
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take the time to interact with one another,
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it doesn't take long to realize that for the most part,
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we all want the same things out of life.
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However, in every religion, in every population,
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you'll find a small percentage of people
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who hold so fervently to their beliefs
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that they feel they must use any means necessary
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to make others live as they do.
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A few months prior to his arrest,
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he sat me down and explained that
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for the past few weekends, he and some friends
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had been going to a shooting range on Long Island
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for target practice.
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He told me I'd be going with him the next morning.
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We arrived at Calverton Shooting Range,
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which unbeknownst to our group was being watched
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by the FBI.
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When it was my turn to shoot,
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my father helped me hold the rifle to my shoulder
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and explained how to aim at the target
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about 30 yards off.
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That day, the last bullet I shot
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hit the small orange light that sat on top of the target
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and to everyone's surprise, especially mine,
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the entire target burst into flames.
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My uncle turned to the other men,
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and in Arabic said, "Ibn abuh."
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Like father, like son.
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They all seemed to get a really
big laugh out of that comment,
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but it wasn't until a few years later
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that I fully understood what
they thought was so funny.
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They thought they saw in me the same destruction
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my father was capable of.
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Those men would eventually be convicted
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of placing a van filled with
1,500 pounds of explosives
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into the sub-level parking lot of the
World Trade Center's North Tower,
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causing an explosion that killed six people
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and injured over 1,000 others.
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These were the men I looked up to.
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These were the men I called
ammu, which means uncle.
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By the time I turned 19,
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I had already moved 20 times in my life,
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and that instability during my childhood
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didn't really provide an opportunity
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to make many friends.
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Each time I would begin to feel
comfortable around someone,
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it was time to pack up and move to the next town.
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Being the perpetual new face in class,
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I was frequently the target of bullies.
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I kept my identity a secret from my classmates
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to avoid being targeted,
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but as it turns out, being the
quiet, chubby new kid in class
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was more than enough ammunition.
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So for the most part, I spent my time at home
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reading books and watching TV
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or playing video games.
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For those reasons, my social skills were lacking,
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to say the least,
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and growing up in a bigoted household,
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I wasn't prepared for the real world.
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I'd been raised to judge people
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based on arbitrary measurements,
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like a person's race or religion.
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So what opened my eyes?
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One of my first experiences
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that challenged this way of thinking
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was during the 2000 presidential elections.
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Through a college prep program,
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I was able to take part
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in the National Youth Convention in Philadelphia.
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My particular group's focus was on youth violence,
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and having been the victim
of bullying for most of my life,
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this was a subject in which
I felt particularly passionate.
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The members of our group came
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One day toward the end of the convention,
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I found out that one of the kids I had befriended
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was Jewish.
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Now, it had taken several days
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for this detail to come to light,
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and I realized that there was no natural animosity
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between the two of us.
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I had never had a Jewish friend before,
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and frankly I felt a sense of pride
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in having been able to overcome a barrier
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that for most of my life I had been led to believe
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was insurmountable.
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Another major turning point came when
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I found a summer job at Busch Gardens,
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an amusement park.
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There, I was exposed to people
from all sorts of faiths and cultures,
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and that experience proved to be fundamental
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to the development of my character.
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Most of my life, I'd been taught
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that homosexuality was a sin, and by extension,
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that all gay people were a negative influence.
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As chance would have it, I had the opportunity
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to work with some of the gay performers
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at a show there,
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and soon found that many were the kindest,
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least judgmental people I had ever met.
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Being bullied as a kid
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created a sense of empathy in me
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toward the suffering of others,
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and it comes very unnaturally to me
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to treat people who are kind
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in any other way than how
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Because of that feeling, I was able
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to contrast the stereotypes I'd been taught as a child
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with real life experience and interaction.
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I don't know what it's like to be gay,
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but I'm well acquainted with being judged
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for something that's beyond my control.
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Then there was "The Daily Show."
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On a nightly basis, Jon Stewart forced me
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to be intellectually honest with
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and helped me to realize that a person's race,
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religion or sexual orientation
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had nothing to do with the quality of one's character.
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He was in many ways a father figure to me
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when I was in desperate need of one.
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Inspiration can often come
from an unexpected place,
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and the fact that a Jewish comedian had done more
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to positively influence my worldview
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than my own extremist father
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is not lost on me.
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One day, I had a conversation with my mother
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about how my worldview was starting to change,
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and she said something to me
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that I will hold dear to my heart
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for as long as I live.
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She looked at me with the weary eyes
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of someone who had experienced
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enough dogmatism to last a lifetime, and said,
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"I'm tired of hating people."
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In that instant, I realized how much negative energy
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it takes to hold that hatred inside of you.
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Zak Ebrahim is not my real name.
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I changed it when my family decided
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to end our connection with my father
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and start a new life.
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So why would I out myself
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and potentially put myself in danger?
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Well, that's simple.
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I do it in the hopes that perhaps someone someday
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who is compelled to use violence
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may hear my story and realize
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that there is a better way,
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that although I had been subjected
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to this violent, intolerant ideology,
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that I did not become fanaticized.
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Instead, I choose to use my experience
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to fight back against terrorism,
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against the bigotry.
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I do it for the victims of terrorism
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and their loved ones,
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for the terrible pain and loss
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that terrorism has forced upon their lives.
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For the victims of terrorism, I will speak out
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against these senseless acts
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and condemn my father's actions.
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And with that simple fact, I stand here as proof
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that violence isn't inherent in one's religion or race,
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and the son does not have to follow
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the ways of his father.
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I am not my father.
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Thank you. (Applause)
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Thank you, everybody. (Applause)
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Thank you all. (Applause)
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Thanks a lot. (Applause)
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Translated by Joseph Geni
Reviewed by Mad Aronson

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Zak Ebrahim - Peace activist
Groomed for terror, Zak Ebrahim chose a different life. The author of The Terrorist's Son, he hopes his story will inspire others to reject a path of violence.

Why you should listen

When Zak Ebrahim was seven, his family went on the run. His father, El Sayyid Nosair, had hoped Zak would follow in his footsteps -- and become a jihadist. Instead, Zak was at the beginning of a long journey to comprehend his past.

Zak Ebrahim kept his family history a secret as they moved through a long succession of towns. In 2010, he realized his experience as a terrorist’s son not only gave him a unique perspective, but also a unique chance to show that if he could escape a violent heritage, anyone could. As he told Truthdig.com, “We must embrace tolerance and nonviolence. Who knows this better than the son of a terrorist?”

In 2014 Ebrahim published the TED Book The Terrorist's Son, a memoir written with Jeff Giles about the path he took to turn away from hate. In early 2015 the book won an American Library Association Alex award.

More profile about the speaker
Zak Ebrahim | Speaker | TED.com