TED2019
Wajahat Ali: The case for having kids
瓦加哈特·阿里: 关于生育的讨论
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全球的生育率，或者说女性人均生育子女数，在过去的50年中降低了一半。新生人口数减少对于人类的未来意味着什么？在这段有趣而有启发性的演讲中，记者瓦加哈特·阿里（自称是一名筋疲力尽的老父亲）分析了当前这一趋势将如何引发意想不到的问题，并分享了为什么他认为应当为想生育的人创造条件。他说，“对于那些有能力并选择生育的人，愿你们传承这名为生命的美好之物，心怀善良、宽容、体面、与爱。”
Wajahat Ali - Writer
New York Times contributing op-ed writer, recovering attorney, playwright and exhausted dad Wajahat Ali celebrates the diverse narratives of the United States and advocates for a more inclusive cultural landscape. Full bio
New York Times contributing op-ed writer, recovering attorney, playwright and exhausted dad Wajahat Ali celebrates the diverse narratives of the United States and advocates for a more inclusive cultural landscape. Full bio
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00:12
I'm an exhausted dad.
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我是一个精疲力尽的老父亲。
00:15
Currently owned and dominated
by two mini dictators,
by two mini dictators,
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目前为两个小独裁者所有，受其支配，
00:19
who rule my life with an iron fist
while wearing their Huggies diapers.
while wearing their Huggies diapers.
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他们对我实行铁腕统治，
尽管还穿着尿不湿。
尽管还穿着尿不湿。
00:23
(Laughter)
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（笑声）
00:24
Now probably because I've been
drowning in small people lately,
drowning in small people lately,
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或许是因为
最近一直和小孩子待在一起，
最近一直和小孩子待在一起，
00:28
I've been paying close attention
to a particular headline.
to a particular headline.
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我对于一个话题格外关注。
00:31
It seems around the world,
in developed countries,
in developed countries,
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看起来在全球所有发达国家，
00:33
people are having fewer babies.
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人们都在减少生育。
00:36
From North America to Europe
to China to Japan,
to China to Japan,
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从北美到欧洲，从中国到日本，
00:39
there's actually been
a consistent decline in birth rates.
a consistent decline in birth rates.
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出生率确实呈现连续下降的趋势。
00:43
In fact, over the past 50 years,
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事实上，在过去的50年里，
00:45
the global fertility rate has halved.
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全球的生育率下降了一半。
00:50
What the heck is going on?
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到底发生了什么？
00:52
Now, my friends who don't want kids,
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我身边不想生孩子的朋友
00:54
all point to climate change
as a reason for never having babies.
as a reason for never having babies.
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都把气候变化
说成是不要孩子的原因。
说成是不要孩子的原因。
00:57
And many of you are sitting there
right now, saying,
right now, saying,
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在座的很多人现在肯定想说：
01:00
"Waj, there's also overpopulation,
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“嘿，人口过剩问题
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there's also high birth rates,
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以及在很多非洲和中东国家
01:05
which still exist in many African
and Middle Eastern countries,
and Middle Eastern countries,
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仍然有高生育率，
01:08
there's also orphan kids
who still need parents,
who still need parents,
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而且还有孤儿需要养父母，
01:10
there's also a lack of resources
to go around for everyone,
to go around for everyone,
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总体资源仍然处于不足，
01:13
and oh, by the way,
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啊顺便说一句，
01:14
we have a ginormous carbon footprint
that is destroying this planet.
that is destroying this planet.
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我们正面临严重的碳排放问题，
它正在毁灭地球。”
它正在毁灭地球。”
01:19
I hear you, I hear you.
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我听到了，都听到了。
01:21
And yet, despite all this chaos,
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但是尽管有这些声音，
01:25
I still think we should have babies.
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我还是认为我们应该生孩子。
01:28
I believe we can and should
fight for the earth and humanity,
fight for the earth and humanity,
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我相信我们可以，且应当，
为地球、为人类，
为地球、为人类，
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side by side.
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并肩作战。
01:34
Now, if I could take it
personal for a second,
personal for a second,
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此刻，如果允许我暂时以己度人，
01:36
I get it, I get why some of you
might be skeptical about having babies.
might be skeptical about having babies.
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我能理解为什么有些人
对于要孩子持怀疑态度。
对于要孩子持怀疑态度。
01:40
Here's a photo of my wife and me
before we had kids.
before we had kids.
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这里有张照片，
是我和我太太有孩子之前拍的。
是我和我太太有孩子之前拍的。
01:44
Young, happy, fresh.
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年轻，快乐，有活力。
01:48
(Laughter)
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（笑声）
01:49
Here's a photo of me after having kids.
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这一张照片是有孩子后的我
01:52
A broken, defeated husk of a man.
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一名憔悴落魄的老父亲。
01:55
(Laughter)
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（笑声）
01:56
Here's the photo of the car
I thought I'd be driving as an adult.
I thought I'd be driving as an adult.
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这是我以为，
作为一名成年人我会开的车，
作为一名成年人我会开的车，
02:01
A Porsche.
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一辆保时捷。
02:03
Here's what I actually drive.
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这是我现实里的车，
02:07
A Honda Odyssey minivan.
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本田奥德赛家用车。
02:11
(Laughter)
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（笑声）
02:12
(Applause)
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（掌声）
02:13
For the minivan.
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说到家用车，
02:15
Where there was once hope,
now there is convenient space,
now there is convenient space,
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现在我只在意舒适的空间，
02:18
and good mileage, good mileage.
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还有低油耗，还省油哦。
02:21
Now, I just want to stress
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在这里我想要强调，
02:24
that I'm completely aware
of the very dire threats
of the very dire threats
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我完全了解全球变暖和气候变化
02:29
of global warming and climate change.
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带来的巨大而可怕的风险。
02:31
I just want to acknowledge
that choosing to have babies
that choosing to have babies
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我只是想说明选择生孩子
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is a deeply, profoundly personal choice.
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是一个非常认真而深刻的个人选择。
02:37
And that many who want to are unable.
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但很多人的选择其实身不由己。
02:40
But just for today, let's examine
the flip side of the coin.
the flip side of the coin.
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不过今天在这里，
我们来看看问题的另一面：
我们来看看问题的另一面：
02:43
At how not having enough new people
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新生人口不足将如何成为
02:46
is going to be a major problem
moving forward.
moving forward.
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影响进步的主要问题。
02:49
According to the World
Health Organization,
Health Organization,
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根据世界卫生组织的数据，
02:51
we need to average about
2.1 children per woman today
2.1 children per woman today
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基于当前人口，
每位女性平均需要生育2.1个子女
每位女性平均需要生育2.1个子女
02:54
just so we have enough people
to replace the previous generation.
to replace the previous generation.
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才能保证有足够的人口完成代际更替。
02:58
A lot of you thought overpopulation
was going to be a problem in 100 years --
was going to be a problem in 100 years --
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很多人认为在100年内
人口过剩将成为问题，
人口过剩将成为问题，
但事实上，问题可能是人口稀缺。
03:01
yeah, it might be underpopulation.
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03:03
So a question:
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那么问题来了：
03:04
what happens if that number
dips below 2.1?
dips below 2.1?
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如果女性人均生育数
低于2.1会怎样？
低于2.1会怎样？
03:08
There's going to be a domino effect.
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这会引发一场多米诺效应。
03:10
As all of us get older, and live longer,
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当所有人年龄逐步增加，
平均寿命延长，
平均寿命延长，
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there's going to be a shrinking
younger population,
younger population,
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青年人口数量将不断减少，
03:16
which is going to lead
to rising labor shortages
to rising labor shortages
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这会导致劳动力短缺，
03:18
in the world's biggest economies.
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尤其是在世界几大经济体国家。
03:19
I'm talking about United States,
China, Japan, Germany.
China, Japan, Germany.
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比如说美国、中国、日本、德国，
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Fewer younger working people
means less tax revenue.
means less tax revenue.
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青年工作人口减少意味着税收减少，
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Less tax revenue
means less money and resources
means less money and resources
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税收减少意味着更少的钱和资源
03:28
to go to safety net programs
that all of us are going to depend upon.
that all of us are going to depend upon.
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来用于我们都将赖以生存的
社会保障工程，
社会保障工程，
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I'm talking about pensions
and health care.
and health care.
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也就是养老金和医疗保险。
03:34
It seems every generation
is indeed connected.
is indeed connected.
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看起来每一代人其实都息息相关，
03:38
But how the heck did we get here
in the first place?
in the first place?
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但我们一开始是怎么会
走到这条路上的呢？
走到这条路上的呢？
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Well, in some cases, it was intentional.
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在某些情况下，这是人为造成的。
03:44
Let's take the DeLorean to simpler times.
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让我们跟着这辆德罗宁车
回到更简单的时代，
回到更简单的时代，
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Let's stop in China.
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停下看看中国的情况，
03:50
Somewhere between he death of disco
and "Empire Strikes Back" -- 1980.
and "Empire Strikes Back" -- 1980.
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在迪斯科衰败和帝国反击战之间的
1980年代。
1980年代。
03:55
In 1980, China decided to implement
the one-child policy,
the one-child policy,
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1980年代，
中国决定实施独生子女政策，
中国决定实施独生子女政策，
04:00
largely limiting most parents
to having just one kid
to having just one kid
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限制了大多数夫妻只能生育一个孩子
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to combat overpopulation.
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以抑制人口过剩问题。
04:04
Check out some good old-fashioned
Chinese propaganda, lovely.
Chinese propaganda, lovely.
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来看看当时中国的一些宣传画报，
很漂亮。
很漂亮。
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Now, fast-forward to 2019.
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现在，我们快进到2019年。
04:10
Even after ending
its one-child policy in 2015,
its one-child policy in 2015,
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尽管在2015年
中国停止了计划生育，
中国停止了计划生育，
04:13
China's birth rates have largely declined.
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生育率仍然有显著下降。
04:16
In fact, the falling population in China
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事实上，中国的人口下降
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is removing one of its biggest
drivers of growth -- people.
drivers of growth -- people.
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正在削弱其发展的最大推动力——
人口。
人口。
04:22
If trends continue,
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如果这个趋势继续下去，
04:24
China's population
is actually going to peak in 2029,
is actually going to peak in 2029,
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中国的人口将在2029年达到顶峰，
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before entering "unstoppable decline."
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然后就开始进入“无法阻止的下降”。
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China's government
is so freaked out right now
is so freaked out right now
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中国政府现在对此非常担忧，
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that it's actually doing new propaganda --
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并制作了新的宣传政策——
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it's begging couples
to have children for the country.
to have children for the country.
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鼓励夫妻们为了国家而生孩子。
04:40
Let's take the DeLorean
and hop over to Japan,
and hop over to Japan,
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再来看看日本的情况，
04:42
home of my beloved Honda Odyssey minivan.
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那是我爱的本田奥德赛家用车的故乡。
04:45
(Laughter)
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（大笑）
04:47
Japan is now producing more
adult diapers than infant ones.
adult diapers than infant ones.
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日本目前的成人纸尿裤产量
已经高于婴儿纸尿裤，
已经高于婴儿纸尿裤，
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The number of kids in Japan
has fallen for the 37th straight year.
has fallen for the 37th straight year.
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日本的儿童数量
已经连续37年呈现下降趋势。
已经连续37年呈现下降趋势。
05:00
And unlike other countries,
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不同于其他国家，
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it has not been able to replace
its population numbers
its population numbers
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日本还无法通过外来移民工作者
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through immigrant workers.
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实现人口数量更替。
05:06
There will be labor shortages
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日本将面临劳动力短缺，
05:07
and not enough money to fund
the safety-net programs.
the safety-net programs.
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将没有足够的钱维持社会保障工程。
05:10
Now, Japan has introduced two solutions.
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现在日本开始引入两种解决方案。
05:12
First, a financial incentive.
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第一是经济激励。
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Some local governments in Japan
have offered couples money to have babies,
have offered couples money to have babies,
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日本一些地方政府
向生育的夫妻提供经济补贴，
向生育的夫妻提供经济补贴，
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with the money increasing
with each additional child being born.
with each additional child being born.
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生的越多补贴越多。
05:23
This actually worked for one year in 2014
in this town called Ama.
in this town called Ama.
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这种方法2014年在Ama镇
产生了效果，
产生了效果，
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It actually raised the birth rate
from about 1.66 kids per woman to 1.8.
from about 1.66 kids per woman to 1.8.
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当年该地的女性人均生育数
从1.66上升到了1.8，
从1.66上升到了1.8，
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But it did not gain traction across Japan.
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但纵观日本全国
这一方法并未取得显著效果。
这一方法并未取得显著效果。
05:35
In 2018, a leader of Japan's
ruling party tried a new tack.
ruling party tried a new tack.
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2018年，日本执政党的一位领导人
尝试了新方法，
尝试了新方法，
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He told young people,
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他告诉年轻人，
05:41
"You're selfish for not having babies."
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“你们不生孩子是非常自私的行为。"
05:44
Shockingly, shaming was not
a rousing aphrodisiac.
a rousing aphrodisiac.
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令人震惊的是，
羞辱并没有产生激励作用。
羞辱并没有产生激励作用。
05:49
Surprise, I know, surprise.
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太震惊了，我知道，
05:51
Who would have thought?
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谁能想到会这样呢？
05:52
(Laughter)
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（笑声）
05:54
Let's take the DeLorean to Europe,
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现在再把目光移到欧洲，
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the continent of delicious cheeses
I love to eat but cannot pronounce.
I love to eat but cannot pronounce.
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芝士的故乡，我喜欢吃，
就是不会读。
就是不会读。
06:01
The UK and much of Western Europe
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英国和西欧的一些国家
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has a birth rate of about
1.7 kids per woman,
1.7 kids per woman,
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女性人均生育数大约在1.7左右，
06:06
which at least is better than Hungary,
where it hovers around 1.45.
where it hovers around 1.45.
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这至少比匈牙利的1.45要好一些。
06:11
Now, Hungary's prime minister Viktor Orbán
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现在匈牙利首相维克托·欧尔班
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has proposed a new solution
to try to incentivize people to have kids.
to try to incentivize people to have kids.
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正推行一种新政以激励人们生孩子。
06:17
He said families where the women
have four or more kids
have four or more kids
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他宣布育有四名
或更多孩子的女性所在家庭
或更多孩子的女性所在家庭
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will no longer pay income tax.
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可以永久不用缴纳所得税。
06:23
Pretty good, right, pretty good.
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很棒对不对？
06:25
At least it's better
than Russia's 2007 proposal,
than Russia's 2007 proposal,
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再怎么说也比俄罗斯2007年的提案
好多了，
好多了，
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which once offered women
in a particular region
in a particular region
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当时在俄罗斯某个特定区域，
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the opportunity of winning a fridge
if they had more kids.
if they had more kids.
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生育多的女性会被奖励一台冰箱。
06:34
(Laughter)
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（笑声）
06:36
Yeah, it didn't work, it didn't work.
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好吧，这个政策也没有什么效果。
06:39
But hold on, pump the brakes.
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但别着急，我们言归正传，
06:41
Orbán is primarily proposing this
because he wants to limit
because he wants to limit
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欧尔班一开始提出这个提案的目的
06:45
the population of Muslims
and people of color.
and people of color.
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是想限制穆斯林和
有色人种的人口数量。
有色人种的人口数量。
他表示他不认为匈牙利的传统、
文化和肤色
文化和肤色
06:49
He says he doesn't think Hungary's
traditions and culture and color
traditions and culture and color
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06:54
has to be "mixed with those of others."
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一定要“和其他民族进行融合”。
06:58
Subtle.
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这很微妙。
06:59
Unfortunately for Orbán,
and much of the EU,
and much of the EU,
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很不幸，
无论是匈牙利还是多数欧盟国家，
无论是匈牙利还是多数欧盟国家，
07:04
the birth rates are not
high enough right now
high enough right now
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就目前的生育率而言，
07:06
to be replenished without immigration.
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都无法在没有移民人口的情况下
实现代际更替。
实现代际更替。
07:09
Among EU countries,
there is a demographic decline.
there is a demographic decline.
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纵观欧盟各国，
都呈现人口下降趋势。
都呈现人口下降趋势。
07:13
So it seems, in Europe, karma
is going to be brown and Muslim.
is going to be brown and Muslim.
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所以在欧洲，
棕色皮肤和穆斯林将是大势所趋。
棕色皮肤和穆斯林将是大势所趋。
07:18
(Laughter) (Applause)
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（笑声）（鼓掌）
07:22
Just saying.
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我只是说说而已。
07:24
The question remains:
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那么还是这个问题：
07:26
Why aren't people having enough kids?
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为什么儿童人口数不足？
07:29
Why is the birth rate declining
in these countries?
in these countries?
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为什么这些国家的生育率在降低？
07:32
In some cases,
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在有些国家，
07:33
it's because women
are more literate, more educated.
are more literate, more educated.
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这是由于女性的受教育程度
较以前更高了。
较以前更高了。
07:37
They have more economic
opportunities -- applaud.
opportunities -- applaud.
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她们在经济上有了更多的机会——
为她们喝彩。
为她们喝彩。
07:40
All good things, all good things, yes.
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没错，这都是好的现象。
07:42
(Applause)
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（鼓掌）
07:44
In India, this has been fantastic,
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印度的情况则非常神奇，
07:46
it has actually reduced the birth rate
but kept it above that magic 2.1 number.
but kept it above that magic 2.1 number.
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生育率确实下降了，
但仍然保持在神奇的2.1之上。
但仍然保持在神奇的2.1之上。
07:50
Women also have
more access to birth control,
more access to birth control,
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女性对计划生育有了更多的控制，
07:53
more control over
their reproductive lives,
their reproductive lives,
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对育龄也有了更多的掌控。
07:55
all good things.
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这都是很棒的变化。
07:58
But in the United States, in particular,
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但是在另一些区域，尤其是美国，
08:01
a lot of young people
are opting out of having kids,
are opting out of having kids,
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很多年轻人拒绝生育
08:03
largely cite the same reason:
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给出的都是同一个原因：
08:06
financial concerns.
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经济上的考量。
08:08
Let's take the DeLorean to my motherland,
the United States of America,
the United States of America,
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我们一起来到我的故乡，美国，
08:12
where the birth rate
hit its historic low in 2017.
hit its historic low in 2017.
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2017年美国生育率达到历史新低。
08:18
The United States is the most expensive
country in the world
country in the world
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在全世界范围内，
美国是生育花费最高的一个国家。
08:23
to give birth.
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08:25
If you do not have insurance,
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如果你没有保险，
08:26
it will cost you 32,000 dollars
to have a baby,
to have a baby,
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生一个孩子大概要花3.2万美元
(约22万人民币），
(约22万人民币），
08:30
if everything goes perfectly.
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这还是在一切顺利的理想情况下。
08:33
That's like buying a brand new
Honda Odyssey minivan, OK?
Honda Odyssey minivan, OK?
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这差不多能买一辆新的本田
奥德赛了好嘛！
奥德赛了好嘛！
08:36
So, congratulations, you just had a baby,
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那么，恭喜你，
假如你刚刚生了一个孩子，
假如你刚刚生了一个孩子，
08:38
but the baby's economic productivity
is zero, and guess what?
is zero, and guess what?
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但这个孩子的经济生产力为0，
而且你知道吗？
而且你知道吗？
08:41
The United States is the only
industrialized country in the world
industrialized country in the world
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美国是世界上唯一一个
08:44
that does not require employers
to offer paid parental leave.
to offer paid parental leave.
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不强制执行带薪产假的工业国家。
08:48
"Mom, you just had a baby,
congratulations, that's lovely.
congratulations, that's lovely.
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“年轻的母亲，恭喜你刚生了个孩子，
真可爱，
真可爱，
08:52
Get back to work
or you're fired, young mom!"
or you're fired, young mom!"
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快回去工作，否则你就要被辞退了！“
08:55
My wife and I, both working parents,
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我和我太太都是全职工作者，
08:58
pay about 3,500 dollars a month --
a month -- in Virginia for childcare.
a month -- in Virginia for childcare.
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在弗吉尼亚州每月找人看孩子
大约要花3500美元。
大约要花3500美元。
09:03
If you do the math,
that's 40,000 dollars a year.
that's 40,000 dollars a year.
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算算看，一年就是4万美元
（约27.5万人民币）。
（约27.5万人民币）。
09:06
That's like buying a brand new,
souped-up, Honda Odyssey minivan, OK.
souped-up, Honda Odyssey minivan, OK.
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这简直可以买一辆全新
高配的本田奥德赛了啊！
高配的本田奥德赛了啊！
09:10
I have one, I do not need 10.
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我有一辆了，不需要再买十辆了。
09:15
So here's my bold suggestion.
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所以这是我大胆的建议。
09:17
Let's make it easier
for people to have babies.
for people to have babies.
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让生养孩子更容易一些吧。
09:22
It seems in order to invest in our future,
we actually have to invest in the present
we actually have to invest in the present
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看起来为了将来，
我们现在就要开始努力，
我们现在就要开始努力，
09:26
and help those people
who want to become parents.
who want to become parents.
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帮助那些希望为人父母的夫妻。
09:29
Give them affordable health care,
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为他们提供能承受的医疗保险，
09:31
give them affordable childcare,
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为他们提供合适的儿童保育，
09:33
give them paid parental leave.
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为他们提供带薪产假。
09:36
Among the EU states in 2017,
France reported the highest birth rates.
France reported the highest birth rates.
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2017年，
法国生育率在欧盟居于首位。
法国生育率在欧盟居于首位。
09:40
Why?
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为什么会这样？
09:41
Largely due to its pronatal policies
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很大程度上是因为其生育政策
09:43
that actually kept women in the workforce.
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对职业女性的保护。
09:46
I'm talking about subsidized daycare
and paid maternal leave.
and paid maternal leave.
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包括有补贴的儿童托管及带薪育儿假。
09:50
China and Japan, thank God,
are finally wisening up
are finally wisening up
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感谢上帝，中国和日本终于也醒悟了，
09:53
and proposing such policies.
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开始推行类似的政策。
09:55
This is great.
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这真是太棒了。
09:56
That being said, I know
some of you have listened to me
some of you have listened to me
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我知道你们很多人听我说了这么多，
09:59
and you still think the best investment
we can make in the future
we can make in the future
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还是觉得我们能对未来进行的最好投资
10:02
is not having babies.
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就是不生孩子。
10:05
I respect that.
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我尊重你们的选择。
10:06
I get where you're coming from.
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我知道你们为什么会这么想。
10:07
And I know many of you in this audience
want to have babies
want to have babies
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我也知道在座的很多人想要生孩子，
10:12
but you are terrified about the future.
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但你们对未来充满恐惧。
10:15
And as a parent, I feel you.
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作为一个父亲，我感同身受。
10:18
I'm scared about the future.
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我对未来感到害怕。
10:20
I wrote that last line a month ago.
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一个月前我写下了这句话。
10:23
But it really hit home
three days ago for me,
three days ago for me,
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但是三天前的一件事才是直击要害，
10:25
while I was at TED.
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当时我正在TED。
10:29
Three days ago, my wife calls me, crying.
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三天前，我的妻子哭着给我打电话，
10:32
I pick it up in my hotel room.
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我在酒店房间里接到电话，
10:34
And she said, "I'm calling
from the hospital."
from the hospital."
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她说，“我正在医院打电话。”
10:36
We had to take my baby daughter Nusayba,
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我们的小女儿Nusayba，
10:38
who was named after a warrior princess,
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得名于一位勇敢的公主，
10:40
to the hospital, because she found
a bump on the stomach.
a bump on the stomach.
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因为胃里有个肿块而被送到医院。
10:43
We got back the results,
and there were bumps all around her liver.
and there were bumps all around her liver.
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检查结果显示
她的肝脏中有很多肿块。
她的肝脏中有很多肿块。
10:47
Today, this morning, we found out
that she has stage IV liver cancer.
that she has stage IV liver cancer.
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今天早上，
我们得知她已经是肝癌四期。
我们得知她已经是肝癌四期。
10:51
(Audience gasps)
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（观众惊呼）
11:00
It has been a challenging week.
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这一周对我来说太挑战了。
11:03
It has been a challenging week.
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太挑战了。
11:04
And if I may, I just want to take a moment
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如果可以，我想占用一点时间，
11:07
to acknowledge the TED staff,
everyone, top-down,
everyone, top-down,
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感谢TED的所有工作人员，
上上下下每个人，
上上下下每个人，
11:10
everyone in the back, in the green room,
some of the speakers, word has spread.
some of the speakers, word has spread.
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幕后的、绿幕室的、以及其他演讲者。
11:14
On behalf of my family, my wife,
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我谨代表我的家庭、我的太太，
11:16
and my parents -- my Pakistani parents
said I had to say this --
said I had to say this --
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以及父母—我来自巴基斯坦的父母
让我一定要说：
让我一定要说：
11:19
thank you for just being decent
and kind this week.
and kind this week.
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谢谢你们在这一周对我的友好和善意，
11:22
So thank you.
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真的非常感谢。
11:23
(Applause)
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（掌声）
11:31
These are my beloveds,
my Ibrahim and Nusayba, my babies.
my Ibrahim and Nusayba, my babies.
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这是我的挚爱，我的宝贝
Ibrahim和Nusayba。
Ibrahim和Nusayba。
11:36
I talked to my wife,
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我和我太太聊过，
11:37
and despite the terrible news
and the fight ahead,
and the fight ahead,
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尽管有这样可怕的消息和
接下来的一场苦战，
接下来的一场苦战，
11:40
we both concluded that we regret nothing.
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我们都觉得毫不后悔。
11:45
Deciding to have babies
was the best decision we ever made.
was the best decision we ever made.
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觉得要孩子是我们一生中
做过最好的决定。
做过最好的决定。
11:50
Our babies have brought us so much joy
and they've brought the world so much joy,
and they've brought the world so much joy,
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我们的孩子带给我们和
这个世界如此多的快乐，
这个世界如此多的快乐，
11:54
and having kids is a risk,
but life is a risk.
but life is a risk.
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生孩子确实是一场冒险，
但人生就是一场冒险。
但人生就是一场冒险。
11:58
And yes, I hope you've been
paying attention,
paying attention,
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是的，我希望你们都已经注意到，
12:00
we need to invest in babies
in developed countries
in developed countries
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在发达国家我们需要有更高的生育率
12:02
if we want to help save
our economy and pensions.
our economy and pensions.
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以促进或是拯救经济和社会保障体系。
12:05
But that's not the reason you have babies.
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但这不是你们生育的原因。
12:07
That's not the main reason.
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至少不是主要的原因。
12:09
Babies have always represented
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孩子总是能代表
12:10
humanity's best, boldest,
most beautiful infinite possibilities.
most beautiful infinite possibilities.
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人性中最美好、最迷人的无限可能性。
12:16
And if we in developed countries,
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如果身处发达国家的我们，
12:18
as a whole, opt out,
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从整体上选择拒绝，
12:20
and don't invest in present
and future generations,
and future generations,
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对这一代和下一代不抱有希望，
12:23
then what the hell's the point?
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那人生还有什么意义？
12:25
What's the point of being
on this absurd journey together?
on this absurd journey together?
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这荒谬的人生还有什么意义？
12:29
And so, for those who can
and who choose to,
and who choose to,
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那么对于那些有能力的人，
12:34
for those who can
and who choose to have kids,
and who choose to have kids,
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那么对于那些有能力并选择生育的人，
12:38
may you pass on
this beautiful thing called life,
this beautiful thing called life,
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愿你们传承这名为生命的美好之物，
12:42
with kindness, generosity,
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心怀善良、宽容、
12:46
decency and love.
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体面、与爱。
12:50
Thank you.
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谢谢。
12:51
(Applause)
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（掌声）
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Wajahat Ali - WriterNew York Times contributing op-ed writer, recovering attorney, playwright and exhausted dad Wajahat Ali celebrates the diverse narratives of the United States and advocates for a more inclusive cultural landscape.
Why you should listen
As Wajahat Ali writes: "I'm a left-handed son of Pakistani Muslim immigrants who is still trying to figure out what he wants to be when he grows up -- but once in a while, I can tell a great story and amuse people. Now, I get paid to write and tell stories that are by us, for everyone. As a father of two caramel-mocha skinned babies with multi-syllabic names, I often ask myself, 'What's my role as a parent? How do I protect my children from unique challenges and horrors they will have to face?'
"Even as the doubts and worries multiply, my wife and I still believe having kids was the best decision we ever made. Not only have they brought us considerable joy, but they have inspired me to try to fix as many of the problems we face today, so all of our children can emerge as the protagonists of an evolving American narrative."
Wajahat Ali | Speaker | TED.com