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JD Schramm: Break the silence for suicide attempt survivors
JD Schramm: Prekinimo šutnju za preživjele samoubojice
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Čak i kada se naši životi doimaju u redu izvana, u nama može postojati tihi svijet patnje, koji vodi neke do odluke da okončaju svoj život. Na TEDYou-u, JD Schramm nas moli da prekinemo šutnju koja okružuje samoubojstvo i pokušaje samoubojstva, i da stvorimo prijeko potrebne resurse kako bi pomogli ljudima koji traže svoj život natrag nakon što su pobjegli smrti. Izvori: http://t.co/wsNrY9C
JD Schramm - Communicator
JD Schramm teaches future business leaders both the theoretical and practical aspects of communication. Full bio
JD Schramm teaches future business leaders both the theoretical and practical aspects of communication. Full bio
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From all outward appearances,
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Iz svih vanjskih perspektiva,
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John had everything going for him.
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Johnu je sve polazilo za rukom.
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He had just signed the contract
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Upravo je potpisao ugovor
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to sell his New York apartment
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za prodaju svog stana u New York-u
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at a six-figure profit,
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za profit od šest znamenki,
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and he'd only owned it for five years.
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a posjedovao ga je samo pet godina.
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The school where he graduated from with his master's
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Fakultet na kojem je diplomirao
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had just offered him a teaching appointment,
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mu je ponudio učiteljski angažman,
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which meant not only a salary,
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što je značilo, ne samo plaću,
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but benefits for the first time in ages.
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već i povlastice po prvi put nakon dugo vremena.
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And yet, despite everything going really well for John,
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A ipak, unatoč tome što je John-u sve išlo dobro u životu,
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he was struggling,
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on se mučio,
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fighting addiction and a gripping depression.
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boreći se protiv ovisnosti i hvatajući se depresije.
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On the night of June 11th, 2003,
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U noći 11. lipnja 2003. godine,
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he climbed up to the edge
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popeo se na rub
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of the fence on the Manhattan Bridge
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ograde Manhattan-skog mosta
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and he leaped to the treacherous waters below.
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i skočio je u opasne vode ispod.
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Remarkably --
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Dojmljivo --
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no, miraculously --
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ne, čudesno --
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he lived.
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preživio je.
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The fall shattered his right arm,
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Pad je smrvio njegovu desnu ruku,
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broke every rib that he had,
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polomio svako rebro koje je imao,
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punctured his lung,
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probio njegova pluća,
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and he drifted in and out of consciousness
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i vrludao je između svijesti i nesvjesti
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as he drifted down the East River,
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dok je vrludao nizvodno uz East River,
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under the Brooklyn Bridge
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ispod Brooklyn-skog mosta
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and out into the pathway of the Staten Island Ferry,
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i na put trajekta s otoka Staten,
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where passengers on the ferry
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gdje su putnici na trajektu
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heard his cries of pain,
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čuli njegove krikove boli,
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contacted the boat's captain
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kontaktirali kapetana broda
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who contacted the Coast Guard
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koji je kontaktirao Obalnu stražu
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who fished him out of the East River
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koja ga je izvukla iz East River-a
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and took him to Bellevue Hospital.
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i odvela ga u bolnicu Bellevue.
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And that's actually where our story begins.
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I tu zapravo naša priča počinje.
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Because once John committed himself
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Jer tu je sam sebi John obećao
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to putting his life back together --
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kako će vratiti natrag svoj život u normalu --
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first physically, then emotionally,
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prvo fizički, zatim emocionalno,
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and then spiritually --
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i zatim duhovno --
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he found that there were very few resources available
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otkrio je kako postoji jako malo raspoloživih resursa
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to someone who has attempted to end their life
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za nekoga tko je pokušao okončati svoj život
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in the way that he did.
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na način na koji je on to učinio.
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Research shows
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Istraživanja pokazuju
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that 19 out of 20 people
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kako će 19 od 20 ljudi
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who attempt suicide
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koji pokušaju počiniti samobojstvo
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will fail.
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doživjeti neuspjeh.
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But the people who fail
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Ali ljudi koji dožive neuspjeh
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are 37 times more likely to succeed
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imaju 37 puta veće šanse da uspiju
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the second time.
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iz druge.
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This truly is
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To je doista
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an at-risk population
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populacija kojoj prijeti rizik
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with very few resources to support them.
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a koji imaju jako malo resursa koji bi im pružali podršku.
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And what happens
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I ono što se dogodi
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when people try to assemble themselves back into life,
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kada ljudi pokušaju sastaviti sebe natrag u život,
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because of our taboos around suicide,
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zbog naših tabua oko samoubojstva,
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we're not sure what to say,
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nismo sigurni što treba reći,
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and so quite often we say nothing.
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i prilično često ne kažemo ništa.
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And that furthers the isolation
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A to produbljuje izolaciju
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that people like John found themselves in.
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u kojoj se ljudi poput John-a nađu.
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I know John's story very well
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Znam John-ovu priču jako dobro
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because I'm John.
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zato jer sam ja John.
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And this is, today,
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A ovo je, danas,
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the first time in any sort of public setting
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prvi put u bilo kakvom javnom okruženju
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I've ever acknowledged
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moje prvo priznanje
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the journey that I have been on.
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putovanja na kojem sam bio.
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But after having lost a beloved teacher in 2006
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Ali nakon što sam izgubio voljenog učitelja 2006. godine
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and a good friend last year to suicide,
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i dobrog prijatelja prošle godine zbog samoubojstva,
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and sitting last year at TEDActive,
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i sjedeći prošle godine na TEDActive,
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I knew that I needed to step out of my silence
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znao sam kako moram istupiti iz svoje šutnje
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and past my taboos
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i prijeći preko svojih tabua
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to talk about an idea worth spreading --
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kako bih pričao o ideji vrijednoj širenja --
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and that is that people
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a to je da ljudi
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who have made the difficult choice
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koji su napravili težak izbor
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to come back to life
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kako bi se ponovno vratili u život
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need more resources and need our help.
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trebaju više resursa i trebaju našu pomoć.
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As the Trevor Project says, it gets better.
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Kao što projekt Trevor kaže, biti će bolje.
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It gets way better.
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Biti će puno bolje.
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And I'm choosing to come out
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I donio sam odluku kako ću istupiti van
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of a totally different kind of closet today
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danas iz potpuno drugačijeg ormara
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to encourage you, to urge you,
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kako bih vas ohrabrio, kako bih vas natjerao,
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that if you are someone
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da ukoliko ste netko
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who has contemplated or attempted suicide,
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tko je promišljao ili pokušao izvršiti samoubojstvo,
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or you know somebody who has,
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ili znate nekoga tko jest,
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talk about it; get help.
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pričajte o tome, potražite pomoć.
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It's a conversation worth having
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To je razgovor kojeg je vrijedno voditi
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and an idea worth spreading.
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i ideja koju je vrijedno širiti.
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Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
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(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
JD Schramm - CommunicatorJD Schramm teaches future business leaders both the theoretical and practical aspects of communication.
Why you should listen
A seasoned communicator and entrepreneur, JD Schramm teaches the theoretical and practical aspects of effective communication as a lecturer in management at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. At Stanford, he has led the development and launch of the Mastery in Communication Initiative to help GSB students improve their mastery of speaking and writing.
He says: "I cultivate dreams in myself and others by building bridges, inspiring greatness, encouraging growth, and living passionately."
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