Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
Esther Perel: Il segreto del desiderio nelle relazioni a lungo termine.
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is changing the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life. Full bio
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continuano ad amarsi come non mai?
che rende il desiderio così potente?
come nel possedere ciò che si vuole --
un dovere coniugale della donna.
che affondano le radici nel desiderio.
il desiderio, e perché è così complicato?
del desiderio in una relazione seria,
di due fondamentali bisogni umani.
di attendibilità, di permanenza --
che danno le basi della nostra vita
ugualmente forte -- donne e uomini --
ABOUT THE SPEAKEREsther Perel - Relationship therapist
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is changing the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.
Why you should listen
For the first time in human history, couples aren’t having sex just to have kids; there’s room for sustained desire and long-term sexual relationships. But how? Perel, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a practice in New York, travels the world to help people answer this question. For her research she works across cultures and is fluent in nine languages. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the author of Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic. Her latest work focuses on infidelity: what it is, why happy people do it and how couples can recover from it. She aims to locate this very personal experience within a larger cultural context.
Esther Perel | Speaker | TED.com